Open Letter to the Fiancee

Are people really so clueless as to the stress planning a wedding can cause? Why the hell would someone wait till 3 months before the wedding to want to make changes? I have only been planning for 9 months. Asking for input, suggestions, and your opinion for 9 fucking months. And now NOW you want to change something. Where the hell is this coming from? Why now? What is the motivation behind this? Is this your mother finally trying to get what she wants at my fucking wedding? Okay okay fine you can make whatever changes you want BUT you have to take responsibility for the changes. YOU will have to call the wedding coordinator, YOU will have to change the program, and YOU will have to let these new people know what to do and how it should be done. Take charge or your change and do it and I mean everything! All of a sudden it’s not a big deal, everything can stay the way it is. Ohhhh really?

Don’t come to me after 9 months of planning and want to make changes. I don’t give a damn if the wedding is 3 months away. It is hurtful when “all of a sudden” you got an opinion.

I just needed to vent.